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Finding Your Perfect Partner
by David Wood
The mistake is to go looking, before cleaning up your
own "back yard". The mistake is to seek someone
because you're so desperately lonely, and don't feel happy
with your own company. You may find a partner using this
approach, but it often won't last, and will rarely lead
to fulfillment.
There's nothing wrong with this approach, and this newsletter
won't stop anyone doing it. BUT - here's the key to entering
a great relationship: You want to be having such a great
time that the perfect partner notices you and says "Hey
- can I play too?".
If you are already happy with your own company, and loving
your life, then skip straight to PART II - the action
section. If there are some things you're ready to handle
in your own life - to prepare a more attractive space
for a partner to come into and play - then read on.
Try the following check list (add up your score - 1 for
each "true"):
- I have a job I enjoy.
- I am happy with my chosen friends and am well supported.
- I am complete (nothing unresolved or unsaid) with
my close family members and friends.
- I do not fret about money. (I have a reserve of
cash and/or regularly save a percentage of my income).
My home and bedroom are places I would feel comfortable
inviting someone to spend time in.
- I am happy with my current weight, appearance and
the way I dress.
- I feel good about the food I eat and my current
exercise program.
- I enjoy/am comfortable spending time alone.
- I have found things to do alone (other than reading
or watching TV) that I enjoy.
- I am comfortable expressing myself.
- My week is fun - I have found things to do that
are so much fun that I'm not always looking around
to see who I might meet.
You don't need to score 11 to have a great relationship.
But if your score is not as high as you would like, why
not choose today to turn ONE thing on the above list into
"True"? Work on your own, with a friend, or
with a coach.
Top Ten Practical Actions to Finding a Partner
The following is a brief extract from the full "Finding
Mr. Right" program (available at my web site). Make
a couple of these true today, then take your time with
the rest...
- I have written down the Top None to Five requirements
of the partner I am seeking (e.g. kindness, ambition).
- I have written down the Top None to Five requirements
of the relationship I am seeking (e.g. honesty, laughter,
support, eating ice-cream together). (And are you
available for casual dating, casual sex, a "serious"
relationship, marriage and kids?)
- I have - in conjunction with friends - come up with
a list of at least five places I might meet such a
person (e.g. sporting clubs, internet, parties, bars,
interest groups)
- I have told at least ten friends the kind of partner
and relationship I am seeking, and that I would love
to be introduced to potential partners, and invited
to a lot of parties!
- I have written down at least three possible dates
to invite someone on, each being something I really
enjoy (e.g. walk on the beach, poetry reading, rock
climbing)
- I ask out at least two people per week (and have
found a way that works for me and is not too scary).
- I have interviewed friends concerning how "available"
I appear. (Some people think they appear available,
but come across as aggressive or snobby.)
Enjoy,
David Wood
David Wood is a Professional Life Coach, and author of
the powerful Free Download: '50 Life Coaching Questions
to Take Control of Your Life and Help Your Clients'. He
helps coaches, consultants, speakers and trainers to build
their businesses via his popular ebook: "10 Super
Coaches Share Their Secrets" and his audio ebook:
"Getting Your First 50 Clients".
"David Wood is a personal and business coach, and
an original founder of the International Coach Academy
- a global coach training school"
Copyright 2001-2004 Life-Coaching-Resource.com
Copyright 2004 SolutionBox™ and Life-Coaching-Resource.com
About The Author
David Wood is a Certified Life Coach. He helps coaches,
consultants, speakers and trainers to build their businesses
via his popular ebook at http://10SuperCoaches.com and
his audio ebook at http://www.FirstFiftyClients.com. Get
his new Free Download “50 Power Questions” and
popular monthly ezine for clients and coaches (now over
15,000 subscribers) at: http://www.solutionbox.com/freedownload.htm.
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