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FREE ADULT CHAT ARTICLES - DATING
The Dating Game
by David Chandler
With all the websites on the Internet that offer a membership
to meet and talk to people that match the criteria that
you are looking for, you are bound to find someone worth
dating. The question becomes how can you tell if someone
is being honest.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be attractive and
representing you that way. The way someone presents he
or she says a lot about him or her. If you're browsing
through the online personals and see someone that catches
your attention, the next step would to be to contact them,
and ask for a picture if there is not already one. We
all know that the first attraction usually comes from
physical attraction. If the picture is not that appealing
we have a tendency to continue looking.
Dating is the first step in finding a lifelong mate, so
don't be in a hurry, go ahead and take your time. Make
a list of qualities that you want in a future mate. Once
you've made your list of qualities, memorize or carry
them with you. These things will determine the type of
person you end up dating. Keep in mind that your list
should not be more than one page, as no one is perfect
and you don't want your expectations to be too high. Everyone
has negative aspects about him or her and it is up to
you to determine if the positive out weigh the negative.
People carry over past relationships to current ones,
and this can be a hurtful thing. Therefore, many people
are opting not to date. Dating may seem like a game, but
we should not be selfish because of our broken hearts
and scarred emotions. Dating has the capacity for good
and evil, just like anything else.
Dating can be both very positive or a negative experience.
Part of what makes us is the relationships we have and
the lessons learned from those relationships. We should
be more considerate of the lessons learned and carry them
in our lifelong commitments. The truth is that we are
likely to foul up any dating mould we choose because we
are not perfect.
The most important factor we should be looking at is whether
or not we can act upon what is right and say no to what
is wrong. You should encourage yourself to date; as you
will never meet that person you could spend the rest of
your life with if you do not.
Relationships do not always end in marriage, and because
of this it doesn't mean we are now less capable of giving
someone else just as much honour, love, patience, kindness,
trust. If you choose to be sincere, devoted, protecting,
trusting, hopeful, persevering, and never failing, I believe
your dating years will be incredible years.
Refusing to date tells us that we believe ourselves incapable
of having a relationship in that manner that was intended
for us. Dating can be a positive experience in your life
and help us navigate the waters of maturity and even marriage.
Dating does not have to be frightening, creepy, forced
or anything else but enjoyable. What you have to do is
make an effort to make the dating years enjoyable. Group
dating is a good way to make sure that you abide by the
standards that you have set for yourself. Plan outings
with friends, church groups, or whatever, just to have
- Dating can be a source of enjoyment and recreation.
- Personal individuality is developed through relationships
with other people.
- Men and women need to find out the kinds of roles
they find fulfilling in a close relationship.
- Dating involves learning about closeness and serves
as an opportunity to institute a unique, meaningful
relationship with a person of the opposite sex.
- Dating helps you find the right mate.
- Dating can provide companionship through interaction
and shared activities.
- Dating can help prepare you for marriage.
If you never date anyone, how will you determine what
you want? Dating is your chance to have a fairly deep
relationship with someone before you hand over your life
to a lifelong marriage.
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